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3 Exercises to Boost Your Libido

There are three complaints that come strolling through my office on a regular basis:

1. Weight gain (you can read more about how to lose 5 pounds here)

2. Hair loss (want thick, beautiful hair and wrinkle free skin? Check this out)

3. Sex drive

Of the three, numbers 1 and 2 are fairly straightforward; number 3 on the other hand is loaded.

Sexuality and libido is a complicated topic. There are many layers of ourselves that go into our sexuality. There’s personal issues (history and trauma), power struggles within relationship, metabolic and hormonal factors, as well as structural factors (whether the pelvis and hips are open or locked) that can overlay our desires in the boudoir.

The trick to dealing with libido is by being gentle and kind with ourselves and approaching each layer as we can.

Want to learn how to open your pelvis safely? Read on.

It’s All Connected

Tight hips can have an impact on your hormones and your desire because darlin’, it’s all connected.

Tight hips can restrict blood flow. The femoral artery is a major artery that runs just inside the pelvis and provides blood for the ovaries and uterus. Tight hips will decrease the flow of blood to this area. Less blood flow means less hormonal input.

Less hormonal input, means less desire.

Now, it’s not just less hormonal input to the ovaries. There’s a bigger picture here. Because, you know from reading my work that your hormones are made by the endocrine system. Now when I say “system”, I mean system.

There’s not one gland that’s more important than another when it comes to your endocrine system. They all work together.

Often, practitioners will point to the thyroid or even the adrenals when a client says, “my sex drive is not what it used to be”. Honestly speaking, it takes all the glands [thyroid, pituitary, adrenals and ovaries/pancreas] to be functioning well to feel “in the mood again”.

An under-nourished ovary due to the lack of blood can be a big player in a hormonal meltdown. Your thyroid and adrenals can’t take all the blame.

Opening the Pelvis Can Be Key

There’s no denying that the pelvis is a hot spot when it comes to sexuality.

The pelvis is the seat of our reproductive organs and the center of the 1st chakra. It’s our foundation and in groovy terms, it can be viewed as the “seat of our soul”.

We tend to store our emotional/ sexual baggage here. Sometimes it’s hard to know if our stiffness and guardedness is a result of our lifestyle and inflexibility, or if the tightness is a result of our thoughts and traumas.

Sometimes it doesn’t really matter what tipped off the restrictions, sometimes it’s just more important to open the pelvis and get back in the flow again.

The following three exercises should be practiced as a sequence. Start with the first one and end with the last. All together, the exercises should take about 15 minutes. Be patient with the exercises and hold them. Stretching in and out (also known as “bouncing”) doesn’t create lasting change for the structure. Gently holding a pose will relax the nervous system and allow for a deeper shift in the system.

Practicing these 3 gems, 3 times a week will begin the process of unlocking your pelvis and boosting your desire.

Here's to open hips, connection, and  romance

~ Kristin

PS. Feel free to pass this tip along to a close friend. Because more love in the world is a good thing. XO

legs up the wall
legs up the wall

Legs Up the Wall

1. Lay on your back with your hips anywhere from 6-12 inches away from the wall. If your hamstrings are very tight, you might need to be further away from the wall.

2. Legs extend up the wall with the knees extended straight.

3. Support your head with a bolster.

4. Clasp your hands under the bolster if you can. If you can’t clasp your hands, hold the sides of the bolster.

5. Close your eyes, relax and breathe. Rest in the pose for 5 minutes.

spread legs up the wall
spread legs up the wall

Spread Legs Up the Wall

1. Switch the interlock of your hands (if your hands are clasped, otherwise just leave them as is holding the sides of the bolster.)

2. Spread legs into a V shape.

3. Relax your feet. Rotate your inner thigh so that your heel is in full contact with the wall. Your foot should not be rotated.

4. Close your eyes, relax and breathe. Rest in the pose for 5 minutes.

bent knees
bent knees

Bent Knees Spread Legs up the Wall

1. If your shoulders are sore, remove your arms. Do not stretch your arms or massage your shoulders, just bring them down to your side. Let your shoulders adjust. If there is no pain in your shoulders, then slide your hands under your bolster and extend your arms along the floor overhead. Stretch your hands and fingers under the bolster and extend your arms straight.

2. Bend your knees so that the soles of your feet contact the wall. Knees will be spread. This position is like a squat at the wall.

3. Close your eyes, relax and breathe. Although this pose can be uncomfortable for many, relax into the pose and hold for 3-5 minutes.

Want to Lose 5 pounds easily? Get started with this 1 quick (thyroid) tip

Let’s not beat around the bush.

The number one complaint that women with a low-functioning thyroid complain about is: weight gain.

It’s a controversial topic that no one really wants to talk about it. Aren’t we supposed to love ourselves through and through even with those extra lbs?

Surely, “it’s not about the weight”. Feeling good isn’t about the numbers on the scale. Feeling good certainly comes from the inside out.

Aaand…… most of us start to cringe when we’re 5 to 10 pounds above our normal because it just. doesn’t. feel. good.

If you’re like the women that I see in my practice, likely you wouldn’t mind losing a couple of pounds. Keep reading and check out this thyroid tip to lose a few pounds (quick!).

5 pound weight loss
5 pound weight loss

Hormones and Weight Gain

Oh hormones.

They are beautiful and threatening all in the same sentence.

On one hand, they grace us with the ability to have children, give us energy and spark our creative cycles.

On the other, hormones drive us up-the-wall emotionally and have the ability to bring us to our knees within minutes.

There are 4 glands at work that balance our your hormones; pituitary, thyroid, adrenals and ovaries (pancreas in menopausal women). Granted all 4 work together, but two tend to get the spotlight (especially when we’re talking LBs): adrenals and thyroid.

These two glands, the adrenals and thyroid, are all about energy production and metabolism. The adrenals make the energy for your body and your thyroid doles it out.

To keep it simple, think of your adrenals as the energy producer and your thyroid as the energy manager. If either of these glands is on the down low, then energy tends to sag and pounds can add on quite easily.

A Little More Specifics For You

Your amazing human body has two adrenal glands located at the top of each kidney. Each adrenal gland is composed of two parts: the outer part called the adrenal cortex and the inner adrenal medulla. Both areas of the adrenals secrete specific hormones to affect many different bodily functions.

Cortisol is a glucocorticoid that is secreted by the adrenal cortex.

Cortisol is involved in our body’s stress response and helps regulate metabolism.

When stress goes up, cortisol levels rise too. Higher cortisol levels in the blood make us feel more hungry and increases cravings for “comfort” foods.

Cortisol also has a sweet relationship with the thyroid. The thyroid gland needs just the right amount of cortisol to function properly.

Too much cortisol (cause by a stress response of the adrenal glands), causes your body cell’s to no longer respond to the thyroid hormone signal.

Whew…..that’s a big deal.

In essence, your adrenals are making energy, but your body can’t respond to it. And sooner than later, your system needs more and more thyroid hormone to get the same metabolic effect.

If your system can’t provide the thyroid hormone, weight gain is sure to follow suite (whether we like it or not).

The Not-So-Crazy-Works-For-Everyone Secret to Weight Loss

Are you ready?

Listen closely.

Eat. More. Veggies.

I know most of us think that we eat enough veggies, but honestly you can never have enough. 

Let's make sure that we've got this straight. I’m not suggesting that we become vegetarians. It’s really important to get a balance of proteins, fats, and carbs. Yet, most of us can benefit from the idea of being a “vege-phile” [a person who loves veggies, grabs veggies and goes for more veggies]. We don't need to eat like monks, but eating more veggies fuels our system and helps our thyroid in ways that we can not even imagine.

Vegetables are your power-packed, guilt-free, I-love-me food. Because they are so loaded with all the good stuff and easy to digest, you can virtually eat as much as you want without putting a drag on your metabolism. In fact, the more veggies you eat, the more you’ll rev up your metabolism.

Sneak in More Veggies with these EZ Tips

1. Chop Ahead: For some reason, veggies just aren’t as easy to reach for as cheese and crackers. Here’s what one client did when she heard the eat-more-veggies tip; she cut veggies on Sunday and put them in a clear Tupperware container for the week. That way she could see them and grab ‘em easily. [By the way- she’s dropped 8 pounds in a 4 week time period….not bad, ‘eh].

2. Have Veggie Snacks: Research shows that it’s hard to get enough veggies in at meals alone. Go ahead and beat the research by having veggies when you’re hankering for a snack. Here’s the good news: veggies are guilt-free foods so go ahead and munch away on as many as you want.

3. Go for Ferments: Veggie ferments are power packed for two reasons. #1: They are ready to go. Just add as a side condiment to your meal. #2: They are loaded with good probiotics for digestion. It’s like getting a bonus with your veggie package.

4. Veggies After Dinner: It can be easy to munch away on any old thing after dinner. Eventually one snack turns into another and suddenly we’re four snacks down the road. Think veggies after dinner and get the munchies out while you’re crunching on red peppers, carrots, or cucumbers.

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Here's to fresh veggies and a healthy thyroid

~ Kristin